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Work and Maya kept taking the same chair this month. The Tuesday dry run showed up three times, usually as dread first and a walk you almost skipped. Even the Sunday reset still had the slide deck in the room, as if closing the week required one more polish before you were allowed to sleep. Competence sat underneath most of it: not the work itself, but whether you would look ready when someone else finally looked.

• The dry-run nights clustered around competence — looking unprepared before Maya sees the work, then staying up to sand a deck that was already done enough.
• Relatedness ran hotter than autonomy: you wrote about Maya’s silence more than about what you actually wanted from the week, and her quiet became the weather in the room.
• Catastrophizing spiked the evening before the meeting, then dropped after you took the walk anyway — the body already knew the extra hour on slides was not the thing that helped.
• Sleep slipped past midnight on the nights you kept polishing instead of closing, and those mornings started in deficit even when the deck looked “safer.”
• The loop is looking unprepared, not the work itself. Sunday reset is the one night the loop loosens, which is why it keeps showing up as the exception worth keeping.

A month of circling the same two rooms — and a few nights where you actually left them. The pattern is visible now: the walk is the turn, the extra polish is the stall.

The pattern is not that you are unprepared. It is that you rehearse the worst version of Maya’s face until the deck feels like the only shield, and bedtime becomes the thing you bargain away. Relatedness is doing more work than the slides: her silence gets read as a verdict, so you stay at the table to earn a look you have not even received yet. The reframe is that the walk after the dry run already counted as preparing — the extra hour on slides did not. You already have a night that works (Sunday reset). The job this week is to let an ordinary Tuesday borrow that same close.

1. Write one prepared sentence for tomorrow’s dry run before 10:30 — the talking point, not another slide — then close the laptop and leave the charger in another room.
2. Take the evening walk on the two nights you usually skip it, even a short loop around the block, and treat that as the end of rehearsal instead of a reward you have to earn.
3. In the next chat with Cole, name what you actually need from Maya (a read, a pause, a no) instead of what you fear she will notice, so the silence has somewhere else to go besides the deck.